He liked her with long hair so she cut it short.
- don’t trust men who have to insult other women in order to compliment you
- a subset of this rule is don’t trust men who say ‘you’re pretty/smart/[adjective] for an indian/asian/[identity group]’
- or ‘you’re not like other [identity group optional] girls’
I’ve done a lot of thinking today and what it really boils down to is this: you are all that you have. No one is going to look out for you, cherish you, love you, and defend you like yourself. Do NOT let people walk all over you, take advantage of you, or disrespect you. Fuck them. You have YOURSELF. As long as you are happy with yourself at the end of the day, then that is all that matters.